The Mather Homestead was built in 1778, during the Revolutionary War, by Deacon Joseph Mather, a deacon in Middlesex Parish.  It was built as a "safe house" in a location thought to be far from incoming British soldiers, who raided towns along the Connecticut shoreline in order to wipe out ammunition reserves of the Continental Army and steal the valuables of the local residents.  Not only were residents threatened by the British soldiers, but also by the many Tory spies who sided with the British.  

While Deacon Joseph Mather was off fighting the war, his wife, Sarah, was home taking care of eleven children and helping their neighbors hide their valuables in the house.  Unfortunately, with the help of Tory spies, the British found their way to the home with bayonets in search of valuables.  Sarah had hidden many of the valuables, estimated at nearly 100 pounds of silver and clothing, into the water of a deep well for safekeeping, but the British found it anyway and even forced her to cook for them.  However, they did not find the silver flatware owned by neighbors that was hidden in the "high-boy" chest dresser that still resides in the dining room of the home.


Deacon Joseph Mather was son of the Reverend Moses Mather, an important figure in Darien's history.   Reverend Dr. Moses Mather was a minister of the Yale Divinity School hired as minister of Middlesex Parish Church, now the First Congregational Church of Darien, in 1744.  At that time, the minister was the preeminent leader in the town.  During the war, Mather, a fierce patriot, boldly preached against the British, resulting in the capture of he and three of his sons who were held by the British for five weeks until they escaped.  Reverend Moses Mather also made the case that part of Stamford would become Middlesex Parish and in 1820 it became an official town on the map.  

The murals above were painted in the Darien Town Hall (originally a school) during the 1930s with funding from the Works Progress Administration.   "The Shoreline of Darien" conjures a Colonial-era Darien, when wildlife was abundant and houses were few and far between, connected by narrow dirt trails.  Ominously, the mural also depicts Tories and British soldiers arriving onshore by stealth to raid the Congregational Church.  Enter the auditorium to see dramatic murals to either side of the stage depicting the 1781 raid. To the left is a rendering of the shocking historical event when Darien’s original meetinghouse was under attack by Loyalists during a Sunday service. 
"During the attack upon the Middlesex Meeting-House, Sally Dibble Defies the Royalists in Defense of a Young Boy," the legend reads.
Its companion to the right is a continuation of the scene with the legend:  "Sunday July 22nd, 1781, Capture of the Rev. Moses Mather & His Flock by Tory Raiders from Lloyd’s Neck, LI."  The two murals convey how relations between the Colonials and the British—and their sympathizers—could become brutish as war waged on. Rev. Mather and 50 members of his congregation were captured during the siege and imprisoned in New York.

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19 Stephen Mather Road, Darien, CT  06820

Mailing address:  PO Box 1054, Darien, CT  06820, 203-202-7602

"He laid the foundation of the National Park Service, defining and establishing the policies under which its areas shall be

developed and conserved unimpaired for future generations. There will never come an end to the good that he has done."            

-Louis C. Cramton, referring to Stephen T. Mather (1867-1930)